So have you ever asked yourself, “How can I attract women online and offline?”
Don’t worry. Men have asked themselves this numerous times and for the longest time. It’s perfectly normal. Yeah, so I’m changing things up a bit by targeting mainly men for this particular blog entry.
Let us be real here. As a man, yet the act like a man! You can’t just expect a girl to come up to you, ask you out, and that would spark of relationship. Rarely does that ever happen. The only situations where that would actually occur would involve a guy with classic good looks and a girl who is very confident, aggressive, and knows what she wants.
Most of the time, even if a girl is very confident in herself, she won’t ask a guy out even if he is really good looking.
And don’t get me wrong. You really don’t need good looks in order to attract women. Yes, if you do look like Brad Pitt, you can easily get away with more when it comes to attracting women. However, fortunately for the majority of men out there, you can win many women over by simply being funny, confident, and yourself.
A lot of guys don’t understand this. They think the only things that you need to attract women involves the looks, the money, and the status. Sure, these things do matter to a point, but do you really think if those are the only things going for a guy that a long-term relationship would be possible?
“How Can I Attract Women Online?”
All right, so were talking about dealing with women online. Once again, if you have a really good profile picture in your good-looking, girls will just message you. It’s simple and straightforward as that. But don’t forget, this kind of stuff does not matter.
As I said, act like a man! Browse for the women that you find attractive and who seem to have the same personality as you. Then…what do you do? Message them!
You simply will have to handle rejection. Get used to it. Not every woman out there is going to like you, just like how not every girl would be perfect to your liking. The majority of women you contact online either won’t respond or will simply chatted up with you until the conversation dies.
Nevertheless, if you continue messaging women and learning from your mistakes, you’re bound to get some really good results. Who knows? With enough messaging, you might actually be able to setup some dates in person. In a worst-case scenario, would you much rather have a 0% chance at meeting the woman of your dreams? Or would you rather have a 1% chance? Yes, those numbers sound really ridiculous, but those are just in the worst-case scenario as I said.
Basically, I’m just telling you to play the numbers game.
“How Can I Attract Women OffLine?”
Now, meeting women offline can be considered harder then the whole online thing, but actually can be easier depending upon how you think about things. The problem with online dating is you end up with a lot of girls who flake. Either they won’t respond to messages or they would bail on a date at the last minute. Sometimes, you do end up wasting a lot of time with these kinds of girls.
When it comes the meeting women in person, at least you can tell within minutes if not seconds whether she is into you or not. Yes, approaching women and starting up a conversation may seem a lot harder and more nerve-racking than messaging a bunch of women online, but you need to think of it as a high risk, high reward type of situation.
Okay, that’s enough for today. I get more into the offline way of meeting women in a future post for you guys out there.
-Tiffany
