Let me ask you this…did you actually try out eHarmony Login Challenge 1? I wouldn’t be surprised if none of you did. C’mon now 
I’m telling ya. Finding success in online dating is much easier than you think. Rather than trying to approach someone in person or hoping that one day the man or woman of your life will randomly ask you out at Starbucks, take action! It’s really simple if you just pick the first man or woman you find attractive in your matches and message them! I’m tellin ya. It’s not hard at all.
People generally will either reject you or just completely ignore you. Plus, handling rejection online is nothing like rejection in front of someone. So keep that in mind. You have NOTHING to lose. As I said here before, putting yourself out there in the online dating sphere is a LOW risk, HIGH reward situation. The only time you’ll see such a situation as high risk is if you BELIEVE it’s high risk.
Believing that you’re not worthy of certain people to date due to certain standards – looks, money, height, etc. – is a self–fulfilling prophecy right there.
So if you believe something is so, it’ll be like that or it will happen as you believe. Learn to bend your own reality. Take a cue from The Matrix:
There is no spoon.
Tiffany, I’ll be honest. I find the whole messaging thing on POF so frightening. There’s always the fear that I’ll get rejected and make a fool of myself online.
Also, I come from a small town, so I’m sure word would spread rather quickly. I know the challenge is pretty mcuh over, so I don’t know if this online dating thing is really for me :/
Just do it! If you plan on staying in your town for a while, it’s something you’ll have to just do if you want to find love in your area. Since you seem like a guy who doesn’t want to develop some sort of reputation, you should be fine as long as you don’t screw anyone over
Hey, Tiffany! When are you going to put up your new post on Challenge 1? Let’s just say I had some success. Once the new blog is up, I’ll write more when I get a chance.
Lauren, sorry for the slight delay. The post is on its way!